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6 Steps To Attracting Your Ideal Relationship

Step 1: Get clear about what you want Many people don't achieve their goals not because they don't work hard towards their goals, but because they don't define what they want in clear, specific terms. If you don't know what you want, you might take whatever you get. And if you just tell the Universe that you want to meet a nice guy, more than likely you will. But he could also be a nice, homeless guy. Or a nice guy who doesn't want a commitment. What are your values in a relationship? What qualities are important to you in a partner? Clarity and specificity are key when manifesting. Step 2: Identify what is holding you back Another reason people don't achieve their goals is because they have negative emotions, limiting beliefs, or other blocks such as contracts, ties, and agreements preventing them from moving forward and creating a new outcome. If you feel like you're doing everything you need to do but you're still not getting the results you want, more than likely there is something deeper holding you back. Blocks not only keep us in a lower vibration, thereby limiting our ability to manifest, they also keep us stuck in the same state and cause us to repeat the same patterns. Step 3: Release your blocks and limiting beliefs Many of the blocks that prevent us from moving forward and achieving our goals are deeply rooted in our subconscious mind. Our subconscious mind stores our beliefs. And our beliefs impact our behavior and our perception of reality. More accurately, what we believe becomes our reality. Therefore, the key to breaking a repeating pattern, creating a different result, and manifesting your ideal relationship is to change your beliefs on a subconscious level. When your beliefs are aligned with your values and goals, it becomes easier to manifest a partner with the exact qualities you desire. Step 4: Move into energetic alignment Being in energetic alignment means being a vibrational match for the relationship you want to call into your life. It's difficult to attract a happy, loving relationship when you are consumed with feelings of sadness or anger. And it's difficult to feel hopeful that you'll meet the right person if you're also worried that it's too late for you to meet the right person. The relationship you desire begins with you – it is a reflection of you. Therefore, to attract more love into your life, you have to be the complete embodiment of love in your life. Like attracts like. Step 5: Manifest your vision for your life We are all Creators and we create through our thoughts, words, and beliefs. Because we are constantly in our minds thinking, we are constantly in a state of creating. To manifest is to be more intentional about what you create. While there is no right or wrong way to manifest, there are essential steps in the manifestation process such as writing down your goals and feeling as if you have already achieved your goals. By combining a clear and specific goal with an elevated emotion, you trick your subconscious mind into thinking you have achieved your goal before it's happened. Put another way, you program your subconscious mind to turn your vision into reality. Step 6: Trust, surrender, and take action To trust, surrender, or let go does not mean to give up. Rather it means to release your goal to a greater mind – whether that be Source, God, the Universe, or the Divine. To trust is to know that what you want already exists and will manifest in the most perfect way and at the most perfect time. It is this knowing that allows us to let go of the need for control and remain open to the ideas, opportunities, events, and synchronicities that occur to move us closer to our ideal relationship. Maybe a friend will randomly invite you out one night. Maybe you’ll unexpectedly have to work late. Maybe you’ll have a last minute change in plans. And in that moment of Divine Intervention, you just might meet the one. ‌