The majority of women I work with want help with relationships. Many have been in a cycle of unhealthy relationships. Some have never been in a relationship. But the question is always the same – how do I find the one? I usually respond "to manifest anyone or anything into your life you have to become a vibrational match for what you want". In simple terms, if you want to attract love, start to embody love – love for yourself, love for those around you, and love for life.
Special occasions like birthdays and holidays are a great reminder of how much we are loved. But they can also remind us of the love we feel we are missing or lacking. The reality of being single on our birthday, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's, or Valentine's Day hits hard and confirms our deep fear that we might be alone for the rest of our lives.
Law of Attraction tells us that we manifest what we believe. The belief that we may get hurt keeps us stuck in a cycle of pain. And the belief that we may be alone causes us to attract or remain in unfulfilling relationships. Before we know it, we create the very thing we feared and tried to avoid.
When two conflicting emotions exist at the same time, we find ourselves stuck. Eventually, we have to choose between love and fear. Love is the antidote to fear. Love transcends fear. And ultimately, our love for the person or thing we want to manifest into our life has to become greater than our fear.